The biggest mistake that I see guys making when trying to approach, date and seduce women is that they tend to talk to women using what I call "Non-seductive" language. Basically the human brain is kind of divided into 2 parts: The Left Brain and The Right Brain. The Left Brain is the part of the brain responsible for processing our LOGICAL thoughts: so it deals with stuff like "reasoning" and "organizing" information in the right order. The other part, the Right Brain is responsible for processing our EMOTIONS: so it deals with "feelings" and "beliefs." Now, you may be wondering what all this basic psychology stuff has to do with attracting and seducing women. Well, it is incredibly relevant and important if you want to be good at seduction. You see, although we're all born with the capacity to use BOTH sides of our brains, science (and real life experience) shows us that women are more accustomed to using their Right Brain than the Left. In other words women are much more in touch with their "Feelings" rather than their "Thinking." This has been confirmed several times by experiments where both men and women were shown various "emotionally" charged images and their brains were scanned to see the level of activity taking place in the brain. On almost every occasion, the scientists could see from the brain scans, that women tended to use BOTH their Right and Left parts of their brains to process the images while the men tended to use only their LEFT BRAIN in processing the images. This may explain why women are better than men at "Multi- tasking." They can think AND feel at the same time while men tend to do mainly "Thinking" without much "feeling." This may also be the reason that women have long been regarded as the more EMOTIONAL of the sexes. Okay, since we now know that women are more "Right-Brained" than men, how do we apply this knowledge to art of seduction so we can attract women and get laid? Well, the way it applies is this: When talking to a woman you're trying to seduce, make sure your conversation is focused on communicating with her Right Brain and not her Left. In fact, I want you to do EVERYTHING in your power to avoid "talking" to her Left Brain. This is CRUCIAL, trust me! How do you communicate with the Right Brain? Two things: "HUMOR" and "STORY-TELLING." Tease her about silly things, tell her funny stories about your pet rabbit. If she asks you about your job, DO NOT talk about your career as an investment banker or accountant, even if that is what you do for a living. Instead, tell her a STORY about the time you discovered a "Cross-Dressing 6-Foot Tall Freak Of A Man" was chasing you down the office corridor. Just always make sure you keep the conversation centered on Humor and Telling interesting, slightly silly stories, and ALWAYS tease HER. Tease her about anything which she's not overly sensitive about. Avoid things like her weight though, most girls are sensitive about weight. Of course you can get serious at times. Just don't do it all through the date. Remember, Left Brain, logical talk won't create sexual attraction, Right Brain "teasing," "Story-Telling" and "Humor" will! This principle of sexual attraction is so powerful that even if you're dating a female Brain Surgeon, Rocket Scientist or Corporate Lawyer, NEVER, ever think that serious logical talk will be attractive to her. Women find "Left Brain" talk dull, boring and useless. If a girl has ever told you, "You're a very nice guy, but I just don't see you in THAT way," chances are, somewhere along the lineyou may have been doing too much "Left-Brain" talking in your interactions with hernot teasing her enough and not taking the focus off the serious talknot telling wild, funny, crazy stories to stimulate her crucial "Right-Brain" emotions. Start talking to women's Right Brain in all your future interactions and you will begin to find it very, very easy to seduce them. |
