Keep on reading if you want to know the answer to this question Marriage is the business of two people, be it the same sex or opposite sex. But here I am more open in the sense that I only want to talk about harmonious living after marriage. Of course I dont deny that sex is very important to enhance the relationship of the couple. But, I think you will agree with me that under certain circumstances couples do encounter stress due to sex. Why do I say this? If not, how can you explain the large consumption of aphrodisiac and purchases and misuse of Viagra, Salix and others by certain quarters? The use of aphrodisiac is the proof of stress encountered by the couple. Well, let me not sway too far from the topic. A loving couple is the one that can live harmoniously under any circumstances. In the language of feng shui, this means that their personal kua is complimentary or supplementary. In layman language it is said that their aura can intersect or the husbands aura is subset to the wifes aura or vice-versa. The two will be able to tolerate as well as respect each other If the personal kua of the couple is in the condition of dominating or being destructive, then this will bring catastrophe or disaster to the family leading towards divorce, having suicidal tendencies or even in more severe cases suicide itself. So guys, please be careful in choosing you spouse so that the personal kua of both of you are able to complement and supplement each other. How are we going to know our personal kua and the personal kua of our so called spouse to be? Well! When we are born, we bring along our personal kua. There are all together 8 types of kua ranging from 1 to 9. 1 is kan symbolizing water, 2 is kun symbolizing wet earth, 3 is zhen symbolizing hard wood, 4 is xun symbolizing soft wood, 5 is wu hwang symbolizing earth, 6 is qien symbolizing hard metal, 7 is zui symbolizing soft metal, 8 is ken symbolizing hard earth or rock, and 9 is li symbolizing fire. These 8 types of kua can be grouped into two categories namely the East group (Tong Sze Ming) and the West Group (Si Sze Ming). It is best that persons belonging to the same group get married to each another as what the proverb said Birds of the same feather flocks together. But dont get worried if you discover your spouse does not belong to the same group. Consult your feng shui master. There is a way align your personal kua so that both of your can live harmoniously. Since every one brings with him/her the personal kua at birth and since it is likely that partners within the same group will live a happy and harmonious life, its not wrong to say that marriages are determined in heaven but only solemnized on earth. So guys, please have your partners personal kua verified so that it is in alignment with yours for a future happy married life. Master Lim of www.getting-pregnant-naturally.com |
