Why do alpha males attract the most desirable of women? I've got something very SPECIAL for you today. We're going to talk about one of the ways that you can become a man who NATURALLY attracts women. So, let's get started by looking at a fundamental fact of nature: MASCULINE ENERGY ATTRACTS FEMININE ENERGY. And FEMININE ENERGY ATTRACTS MASCULINE ENERGY. What do I mean by that? Well, before we get into any explanations I'd like to give you a visual to help you understand the concept. Picture the Yin & Yang circle and notice how there are two complete opposites, but they gel perfectly together. Got it? Good. Now, have you ever stopped to think about why 'cheerleaders' are often attracted to 'star quarterbacks' and vice versa? Why does that sort of 'dating phenomenon' happen time and time again? Apart from the superficial reasons such as increased popularity, their attraction is primarily based on the amazing feelings and experiences they can achieve from each others SEXUAL POLARITY. Think about it... Cheerleaders are often very FEMININE and star quarterbacks are often very MASCULINE, so their sexual polarity blends together to create a MAGNETIC sexual attraction. Two POLAR opposites. Now, stop and take a few seconds to picture a guy who has a feminine personality; a bit of a 'girl' if you might. Depending on her psychology, a feminine woman will find it virtually impossible to feel attraction for a feminine guy. But, wait a minute... Why then, do women often say "I want a nice guy who cares for me and does thoughtful things"? Interesting question. Even more interesting is the answer... When woman says such a thing, she isn't imagining a feminine guy who'll be kissing up to her and being soft, gentle and thoughtful all the time. She's imagining a man who can make her FEEL LIKE A WOMAN with his sexy, masculine personality and also surprise her with a bit of thoughtful, gentle and nice behaviour...SOMETIMES. Starting to get it? Good. Put up your hand if you ever played with magnets as a kid. Can you remember what happened when you tried to stick two of the same POLES together? They repelled away from each other, right? Much is the same with sexual attraction in terms of MASCULINE and FEMININE energy. As the old cliche so rightly goes: OPPOSITES attract. But, that isn't the end of the story. No. I also want you to notice how the masculine energy blends into the feminine side of the Yin & Yang circle. You might be asking "Okay, but what does that signify?" That's charm my friend. It's a side of you that comes in SMALL DOSES and can sweep a woman off her feet. Do it too much and: 1) You will become too feminine.
2) It will lose it's charm, and;
3) You will naturally REPEL her. But, you want to naturally ATTRACT her...right? Of course you do. So, what's the solution? Be a MAN and allow her to be a WOMAN. SOME examples of a man being FEMININE: * Caring TOO MUCH about his appearance (e.g. getting pedicures and manicures to 'look nice').
* Being prissy.
* Being shy and quiet around other guys (i.e. behaving like the omega (lowest ranking) male in social situations).
* Huddling into a woman like she is his replacement mummy. Now, give me a nod and promise that you'll never behave like that. Promise? Good. Here are some examples of a man being MASCULINE: * Being emotionally strong in difficult situations.
* Maintaining a masculine physique.
* Having a purpose in life and going after what he wants.
* Being socially confident (i.e. behaving like an alpha (highest ranking) male in social situations).
* 'Taking charge' in the bedroom. You have my approval to do any of those things. Here are some examples of a MASCULINE man being charming with a woman: * Opening the door for her like a gentleman.
* Gently stroking her body following a session of hard, passionate sex.
* Holding her in a way that allows her to feel like his GIRL, who is safe and protected from the world.
* Surprising her out of the blue with something special or thoughtful. I trust that was some useful information for you. All the best! Dan |
